One thing that men who do not know how to attract or seduce women have in common is they jerk-off a lot.
In fact it is more than likely one of the main reason why some men don’t ever take the steps necessary in order to learn how to get women.
It’s a lot more comfortable as well as safer for a man to just play with himself rather than risk rejection from women.
Don’t get me wrong men who are successful with women jerk off and play with themselves as well.
Yet, there is one key difference and it is why those who are successful with can, and men who are not can not.
The difference is a man who is successful with women has a history of actually succeeding with women.
When he sees a woman he is attracted to in his mind he has the skills and experience to draw upon so that he can duplicate that past success and improvise when necessary.
Men who are NOT successful with women only have the fantasies in their head to draw upon and unfortunately when most men play with themselves their fantasy either has the woman seducing him or begins well after the meeting has begun.
This is one reason why men say they need time to think of what they are going to say.
A unsuccessful man with women sees her and his mind automatically goes to sex because that’s what it has been programmed to do.
It is very important to realize that your unconscious mind takes everything real or imagined as real.
So every time you jerk-off and fantasize about what you would do to a woman your unconscious takes it as real even though you are consciously aware that it is only a fantasy.
If instead you begin learning techniques to actually attract women and had fantasies that took you from the Opener all the way to sex, you just might find yourself actually living out those fantasies instead of just pretending.
Of course your conscious mind might not believe it till it actually sees it and we both know the only way to make that happen.
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ResistingTheUrge
July 28, 2011
The biggest secret I believe is still being kept is if you Stop masturbating, it changes you chemistry. You are communicating sex vibes to women on levels you could never fake. Or. Never do as well anyway.
I learned many years ago, make yourself suffer and wait.. That self control is the same kind of thing that drives women mad! Have you ever made a woman wait, when she wanted it? That is what foreplay is built on.
Something magical happens, not just pheromones and muscle tone, but something at least for me magnetic. I’m talking about having some strange woman totally checking you out and making tons of eye heat and attention you didn’t have the last year of playing with yourself.
So sorry to go on and on, but this article was right on point. There is a reason we call them jerk offs.