Addictions like drug and alcohol addictions are fairly well understood by the general public and by the therapists that administer the multi-dimensional treatment programs. Unfortunately, sexual addictions, which are just as powerful, just as dangerous and just as difficult to overcome as these better known addictions, are not as clearly understood. In short, the lack of awareness about the symptoms, risks, effects and causes of personal sexual addictions like pornography and masturbation dependencies has allowed the spread of these compulsive disorders.
Infidelity, high sex drive and nymphomania are treatable and are deemed more socially acceptable sexual addictions than either masturbation or pornography addiction. As a result, therapies have been developed to specifically treat these sexual-social addictions.
Persons facing masturbation or pornography addictions often do not know where to turn. That is why we have compiled a free and very helpful eBook entitled How to Stop Masturbation – 8 step eBook. By entering your confidential e-mail address in the top left corner of this screen, you can immediately receive a printable version of this informative book. Learn everything you should know about pornography and masturbation addiction. You are not alone.
To clarify sexual addictions, let’s understand that the addiction does not necessarily mean having sex with a partner. Sexual addiction refers to any addiction pertaining to the sexual organs.
One of the reasons sex is such a powerful, personal experience is that it creates a bond between partners. Basically, man is born to bond in order to recreate. Living in a world devoid of true bonding and filled with sexual fantasy is equivalent to continuing to use drugs even though the person knows the drugs are consuming them. Living with fantasy addictions, the only sexual bond exists in a world of fantasy.
In dealing with the conversion away from the fantasy life to a positive, real-world sexual presence, progress can be slow. As with other dependencies, there always exists the possibility of relapse. One day can be easy, the next difficult.
The individual may have to change living, lounging, school and work habits. Even then, the all or nothing approach assures no guarantees. The ready availability of pornographic materials certainly is a detriment to recovery, but that is the society we live in today. When most persons make the commitment to treatment for these personal addictions, they have resolved that change is necessary.
Many recovered sexual addicts support a more gradual “detoxification” program as the more sustainable option. As the recovering addict tastes success, the thirst for more success and larger successes elevates. Part of every rehabilitation program involves setbacks.
Be prepared. Do not be afraid to seek professional counseling or spiritual advice. Alternative exercise therapies have also proven to be especially effective in building a lasting independence from sexual addiction.
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ResistingTheUrge
August 20, 2010
Great article
October 9, 2010
Thank you.
October 9, 2010
Thank you.
October 30, 2010
i want to masturbating.thank you
November 6, 2010
I really need to stop mas, im really very tired and depressed in my life from mas every two days.
November 7, 2010
This really helped. I feel so guilty.
I’m trying to stop, really. I hope I can.
December 14, 2010
Jesus can help you to stop this instead searching for sex things search for the lord…. or better he has already find you god is allpowerfull it is written the body is contradictionary to the spirit but god has the power and he can clean you from the guilt you feel you feel it becuse its a SIN sin leeds to that but thanks god he died on the cross and winned sin aleluja PRAISE YOU IN THE STORM
January 6, 2011
Mas takes away a lot of energy that can otherwise be spent on achieving goals that bring success to life, it leaves you feeling tired, depressed and corrodes thinking, leaving myself feeling and acting like a social loser who is constantly unhappy, aggressive and just plain unfair to myself and others. My marriage has gone really sour in a few years, and even though I’ve not done anything majorly wrong, I realized that mas has been the key to many of my failures. Actually, staying away from mas for 3 days so far (it’s a real achievement for me believe it or not) has made me feel energized all over, I actually feel happy (it’s like my body is getting the right chemistry going) and my mind feels refreshed and reborn. Try to listen or watch something that is spiritual for you (like classical music and paintings in my case) and you will begin to act and think like a better person, better things will start happening for you. Unfortunately in this day and age, we are constantly bombarded with messages that leads us to succumb to wrong and harmful thinking. I imagine sexuality as a source of energy that emanates from your body to feel energized and give you power to achieve things in life, you just need to convert that sexual energy into useful energy (even exercising). Don’t let mas drain that useful energy from you!
I have a long way to go, but I can already see the difference. Thank you to those people who created this site and to those who are aware of this serious problem…
March 31, 2011
you are 100% right .. cheers
April 1, 2011
I agree to what Nick (in one of the above comments) said. Masturbating will definitely make us a loser in life. Yes, yes and yes. It is guaranteed. No doubts about that. Trust me, if you don’t masturbate you can see wonders in life.
I am a loser in life BECAUSE OF GETTING ATTRACTED TO GIRLS AND MASTURBATING and if I do not stop it, I am unsure whether I will lead a happy life ever or not. I pray to God that I will never masturbate from this moment.
April 7, 2011
The only thing people did in the 80s was masturbate. its not the worst thing that can happen. you could have run into a tree, got struck by lightning and raped by a minority.
April 13, 2011
Great thoughts especially the one “if you don’t masturbate you can see wonders in life”.
Why? because life is Energy and most of the people spend it on meaningless things. And those who don’t become successful n happy.
May 3, 2011
I met this girl, I stopped mas the moment I met her. For 2 months I was clean an even became a writer of poetry.. However when she stopped talking to me masturbating several times a day was common for me and I was miserable. I hope now I can stop again and continue writing because when I masturbate I cannot write. Thanks.
June 24, 2011
I unfortunately masterbate and watch pornographic material so much it has consumed my life. It is a shame it has become everything I like to do. In fact, my social life is almost none existant as I have a fear of girls not liking me and boys thinking I am a complete loser. Even though, I have been known to stop the problem for as long as a month or two I always tend to start up again. I wonder if the reason on why I have become so addicted has to do with starting to mastebate around the age of 12. Interrsting now, I have been masterbating for more years than not. God I hope I can stop…but who knows
August 25, 2011
No GOD
September 29, 2011
Hi there,
I suffer from this illness Mas. I started when I was only 14 years old. One day I took a short cut home from school and found, a porn mag. At first I didn’t want to touch it, but I did any ways, ( huge mistake) I ripped out a page, got home and went to town for the first time. Sad part haven’t been able to stop since then. Due to this my relationship with my high school sweet heart ended, a few years ago. I belive the reason was because as the years went by, I couldn’t control myself and went from 45 min sex to 5-10 min. I belive I developed PE form this. In all honesty I’m a very attractive guy, (not to brag) have a great job ect.. had plenty of women, but yet, I feel like I get a better orgasm from doing it myself, but I must be watching porn?. This month, am really trying to quit, I been working out every day. I’m also thinking about disconnecting my internet, this issue effects everyone, not just the lonely. I have promised myself, to stop for at least 6 months, its going to be hard, but I rather sacrifice 6 months then the rest of my life. Thanks for reading…
September 30, 2011
Need more publicity because more and more pople are addicted …
November 7, 2011
You gotta fight the feeling.. your gona loose battles of course but with each one you become stronger. Perseverance.
Mental strength is all you people need. the only way to acquire it is by forcing yourself to go do things.
The real objective in life is to jump out of bed each morning into an ice cold shower ready to take the world on.. you cannot do that by sitting around pulling your balls then feeling sorry for yourself afterwards.
Get a grip on life not your dick.. the world needs you. So stop been sluts.
November 15, 2011
I have been mas since I was abt 18 yrs old. I continue to try n stop but somehow late at night I have to watch porn and it turns into me mas two & three times. Im going to overcome this issue in my life and prove that God can heal me from this sickness and seducing spirits. Thanks for opportunity to vent and take first step into my healing
November 19, 2011
I hope tat dis wl help for my future!
January 8, 2012
i have masturbated since i was a kid, (even though i only started getting erections in puberty like everyone else). in the past it has caused me to miss work or school, and not masturbating has caused me to become severely anxious and depressed. now i am having terrible pain in my penis (yes i have been to the urologist). erections are sometimes painful. i believe i have a bruised nerve in my penis and quitting mas cold turkey (for a while) is the only way to heal. the pain has been for about five months now-if i give it a rest the pain would stop. this website is very helpful, a free ebook means you really are just trying to help people.
January 19, 2012
I have trouble with this for years. Did not see anything wrong with it. Now I see what it has cost me. Asking God to help me with this as it takes my focus off life and God.
January 29, 2012
Let’s stop the masterbation
Step 1 block all porn sites u know and sell all ur movies
Step 2 stay away from the computer unless its for work
Step 3 when ur in the bathroom don’t take anything that has internet access with u
Step 4 when alone at ur house take a nap
Step 5 if u feel like u can’t hold it any more. Pull up ur pants and get out the house
Step 6 be in public so the sexual thought when alone don’t bother u
Lucky step 7 when its about to over come u look in the mirror and as ur self is it worth the pleasure or ur life.. then of course pull up ur pants
Step 8 please please please don’t get a boner or go into heat unless ur around a spouse
Step 9 teens…… u ummm… do the same just not around other people. U need to put that boner back inside or get ur finger from out place of urs and…. pull up ur pants
Step 10 keep those pants up…. for the loved one children spouse and date.
Moto…… pull ur pants up!!!
Or else